my grandpa used to say, "if you arenrt going to do somethi g roght , you might be better off ot doing it all --- at all ." I think we arena -- addicted to a "don - over - - - / undo / spell chekr woels ----- wprld ------ world." in reality sometimes you just get one shot to get rhings r t t right. like first impressions, first dates, first kisses and first marriages .know when its ' a first that matters. abd